By God’s grace and mercy, we are becoming people of fully realized potential.
Primary Text: Ruth 1:15-18
15 And she said, “See, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law.” 16 But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. 17 Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.” 18 And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more.
We have identified the four most important decisions every human being decides for becoming people of realized potential.
- With who will I travel and stay?
- Who are my people?
- Who is my God?
- Am I fully committed to these three decisions?
Today we begin investigating “Am I fully committed to these three decisions?”
Commitment is the foundation of all great accomplishments. Without commitment, Amelia Earhart wouldn’t have become the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. Without commitment, Bill Gates wouldn’t have cofounded Microsoft and become one of the wealthiest people in the world. Without commitment, Roger Federer wouldn’t have become the greatest tennis player of all time, continuing to play even after the analysts said he was past his prime. Without commitment, Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher, from James City, North Carolina, would not have been married eighty-six years, garnering the Guinness World Record and a lifetime of love and family. Inspirational stories about commitment are all around, but commitment is also a crucial ingredient for everyday goals, like designing a new marketing plan, training for a triathlon, or even quitting a terrible job so you can move on to something new. Despite its influence, few people truly understand what commitment is or how it’s created.
Reeder, Heidi. Commit to Win (p. 3). Penguin Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.
Consider the following as a working definition. Commitment is the experience of being internally attached to something and intending to stay with it.
God designed and created humans in His image (Genesis 1:27). God, the Holy Trinity, was, is and always will be “internally attached and intending to stay with it.”
Valuing commitment is part of God’s nature placed inside every human by being created in His image.
Commitment is the living out of our deep desire for permanence. We do not want anything of value in our lives to be temporary or disposable.
He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. Ecclesiastes 3:11
The temporary/permanent dilemma is beautifully considered in 1 John 2:17.
And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.
We are hardwired by God with longing for life’s most important and meaningful relationships to never pass away but to abide forever.
Commitment includes everything required to ensure these relationships abide forever.
In “Commit to Win: How to Harness the Four Elements of Commitment to Reach Your Goals,” Heidi Reeder summarizes current commitment research in the following equation:
(Treasures – troubles) + Contributions – Choices = Level of Commitment
Treasures Rewarding and fulfilling
Troubles Challenging and costly
Contributions Resources invested
Choices Other equal or better options
The Apostle Paul weaves all of this together powerfully in 2 Corinthians 4:7-18.
7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us…
17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.
8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you.
No other options!
This is Paul’s grand slam home run on the temporary/permanent dilemma!
18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
Considerations for increasing my experience of being internally attached and intending to stay with it (Him).
- Treasure Him (God) and everything He treasures. Psalm 73:2, 23-26
- Accurately assess the troubles. 2 Chronicles 20:15
- Increase my contributions. Colossians 3:23
- Hold firmly to God as my only John 6:68