Hurt in the House of Healing

One of the most common things soul winners hear is, “I know about your message, but I was really hurt in my last church.”  Unfortunately, many people have been wounded, most often by misunderstanding, miscommunication, and unholiness, in the midst of the very house created for healing

Maybe you will find the following from Henri Nouwen to be insightful and beneficial.  The Church, for Nouwen is Catholicism, but the notion could be helpful to Christians of all perspectives.

When we have been wounded by the Church, our temptation is to reject it. But when we reject the Church it becomes very hard for us to keep in touch with the living Christ. When we say, “I love Jesus, but I hate the Church,” we end up losing not only the Church but Jesus too.. The challenge is to forgive the Church. This challenge is especially great because the Church seldom asks us for forgiveness, at least not officially. But the Church as an often fallible human organization needs our forgiveness, while the Church as the living Christ among us continues to offer us forgiveness.

It is important to think about the Church not as “over there” but as a community of struggling, weak people of whom we are part and in whom we meet our Lord and Redeemer. From an email by the Henri Nouwen Society.

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